There is a difference between outright abuse and covert abuse.
Here’s a great article about those differences for anyone who is trying to decide whether their relationship is dysfunctional/unhealthy. However, if your gut is telling you it is, it probably is.
Walk on eggshells
Always take the blame or apologize, even if it’s not your fault
Can’t quite put your finger on what’s different about the person
Find yourself ALWAYS questioning your own motives or character based on the other person’s reaction
Can’t make basic decisions without having to run it past the person (Controlling)
Feel like your voice is taken away
Are constantly told you’re crazy or over-react to things
If they twist conversations
If they refuse to take responsibility for their actions
— all of these are red flags! Please seek help from family, friends or a counselor!
And here’s a link to the article HERE!
Until next time friends,